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      Prom Date: The French Laundry

      July 25, 2010

      Gabrielle Perdrizet and I, Spring 1977

      Gabrielle Perdrizet and me, spring 1977, ready for the Montgomery High School Senior Prom. Santa Rosa, California

      I took my prom date to dinner at the French Laundry.  No, really, I did.  In 1977.  Granted back then it wasn’t the French Laundry it would grow up to be.  The French Laundry now owned by uber-chef Thomas Keller.  The world renowned French Laundry; a place where everyone who knows good food wants to eat at least once in their culinary lifetimes.  This past spring I was in the Napa Valley (where the French Laundry restaurant is located in the town of Yountville) and I went to the restaurant.  It was closed as I was there between the lunch and dinner services.  I didn’t have plans to eat at the restaurant.  I wanted to see the building.  I wanted to see if it was true; that I actually did take my prom date, the beautiful and very French, Gabrielle Perdrizet (see photo) to dinner at the restaurant before we went to our Senior Prom at Montgomery High School in Santa Rosa, California, thirty-three years ago.  It was.  I did.

      Cochon 555 045

      Keller Buys the French Laundry

      In 1994 Thomas Keller purchased the building that the current French Laundry is in.  The beautiful stone building dates back to the 1880s when it first served as a saloon.  When alcohol was outlawed within two miles of Yountville it became a brothel.  In the late 1920s it became a French steam laundry.  In 1974 the Mayor of Yountville, Don Schmitt, and his wife purchased the building and opened a restaurant naming it the French Laundry.  The name stuck and when Keller came along he kept it.

      I went to high school in neighboring Santa Rosa in 1976 and 1977 during the time that Mayor Schmitt owned the restaurant.  I have no idea how I even knew it existed.  I may have read something about it in the newspaper, or maybe I saw it on a family outing to the Napa Valley.  What I do know is that once Gabrielle, a French foreign exchange student, accepted my invitation to attend the prom it only seemed fitting that we go there.  Yountville is almost twenty-eight miles from Santa Rosa; it’s over hill and dale, it takes close to an hour to drive to.  I think we arrived at the restaurant at five-thirty.

      My mother let me borrow her fading powder blue V.W. Hatchback.  The car didn’t have a lot of power, we sputtered along as there were problems with the muffler.  We made it there and back.  I don’t remember what we ate.  To my young developing palate it was the most amazing meal I’d ever eaten — at least in my current memory.  I do remember that we sat at a table next to a window looking out on to flower boxes, or possibly flower beds.  I know we had a good time.  It was Senior Prom after all.  And I don’t have any pictures; we didn’t take a camera, it was before the days of photographing everything.

      The 12 foreign exchange students who attended Montgomery High School in Santa Rosa, California, the school year 1976-77.  The countries represented here are Brazil, Chile, Colombia, Sweden (x2), Greece, Scotland, France (x2), and Denmark

      The 12 foreign exchange students who attended Montgomery High School in Santa Rosa, California, during the 1976-77 school year. The countries represented here are Brazil, Chile, Colombia, Sweden (x2), Greece, Scotland, France (x2), and Denmark

      All Things French

      My introduction to all things French happened in 1976, the year before the infamous prom date, when at the age of sixteen I went with my French class on a week long trip to Paris.  It was my first time out of the country, my first time to Paris, and I fell in love hard.  I loved Paris, and everything about it, I still do.  It was an eye-opening experience that led to a lifelong connection to the country and its people.

      There were twelve foreign exchange students during my senior year of high school, two of them were French.  My interest in all things French grew further as I came to better know Gabrielle and Amélie, the two French exchange students.  Gabrielle became my girlfriend and prom date.  So being the budding Francophile and wanting to impress Garbrielle, I chose a place that seemed to be French for our prom dinner.  At least it had the word French in the name.  I probably thought it served French food although now I can’t say if it did or did not.  No matter what type of cuisine, nor how good or bad it may have been, I have the memory of the experience.  That’s enough for me.

      Me in front of the French Laundry, Spring 2010

      Me in front of the French Laundry, Spring 2010

      Now to the Gap

      Through my friendships with Gabrielle and Amélie I was introduced to the idea of working in France as an au pair, or mother’s helper.  I did it.  After I graduated from high school I went and lived in France for a year where I took care of four French children.  I returned home knowing how to cook French food, and speaking French.  The experience cemented my relationship with France.  It’s now like a second home.  It also started me on a path of cooking both professionally and personally that I remain on today.

      So after my year in France I returned to Northern California and began my professional career in the restaurant and retail food businesses; it was San Francisco in the early 80s.  All was going very well.  I was working in top restaurants with top chefs.  Then I decided I wanted to work in the film industry which I started to do after graduating from the New York University Film & Television program in 1988.  I slowly moved into film and away from food.  I missed the advent and rise of a chef named Thomas Keller.  It was the late 90s and Keller’s star was truly ascending, and I kept hearing things about a restaurant called the French Laundry that Keller owned.

      Photo by Jo Stougaard

      Photo by Jo Stougaard

      I often wondered: is this the French Laundry I took Gabrielle to for our prom?  It sort of gnawed at me.  Could it really be the same place?  It was so famous now.  In the early 80s when I was working in San Francisco restaurants I went to the Napa Valley often but this was before the arrival of Keller, and his ownership of the French Laundry.  Until this past spring when I went to the area to attend the Cochon 555 event I wasn’t sure if it was the same place or not.  One thing I did know: while I was there I would be stopping by the French Laundry to see for myself.  I did, and it is, or was, the same place I’d been to all those many years ago with my prom date, the lovely, the beautiful, the very French, Gabrielle Perdrizet.

      So it’s true.  I took my prom date to dinner at the French Laundry.  I recently told this story to a friend and he told me he took his prom date to White Castle for dinner.  (He went to high school in New Jersey.)  Where did you take your prom date to dinner, or where did you have dinner before the prom?

      Bon appétit!

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      15 Comments on “Prom Date: The French Laundry”

      1. Great post once again! My prom was held at the Ambassador Hotel in Los Angeles, CA (where Bobby Kennedy was assassinated)! The event included dinner so we didn’t go to a restaurant.

      2. Thanks, Robert. I love where your prom was held. I never thought about dinner being included. Guess it does make sense!

      3. MyLastBite says:

        OH MY GAWD… loved your hair!!! Love this!! x

      4. Thanks, Jo! Did I have great hair or what? What happened to it?!?

      5. Andrew says:

        This is such a great story. It is so funny how things come full circle. So where is Gabrielle now?

      6. Andrew says:

        Oh and btw, speaking of the hair, isn’t it funny how that comes full circle too? Walk through silverlake and this is the “in” haircut again!!!

      7. Thanks. Andrew. I saw Gabrielle a few times when I went to France but I’ve lost track of her. She got married, I do know that. I’ll have to see if I can find her – that would be so great. Here’s to White Castle for prom dinner!

      8. Re the hair, yes, I’ve noticed that too – if only I could still rock that style (as they say)!

      9. It is always nice to look back….ah lovely memories….
        And yes, nice hair Charles ;-)

      10. Phil says:

        This is such a great story, and the photo was fantastic. You guys made a very cute couple.

        It’s funny that you’re writing about this. I was just reading the chapter of Ruhlman’s book “The Reach of a Chef” where he talked about his first experience dining at The French Laundry, the history behind the restaurant, and what it was before it was an actual restaurant. It’s amazing how unassuming it looks, how little it’s changed on the outside. Because everything is not as it once was on the inside.

        Great to read your food history, how things came to be for you, and why you’re so passionate about France, the cuisine and the people. It’s certainly something to be celebrated.

        And for the record, both of my proms (Junior and Senior years) were complete disasters. I was dumped at the first one (right after we took the picture) and the second started so poorly that we never made it there. Certainly a time to forget, so I live vicariously through good experiences like yours.

      11. Gastronomer says:

        What an awesome coincidence! Maybe you should take your blogger prom date to THE French Laundry this year ;-)

      12. Phoo-d says:

        What a priceless photograph and story. You both look so beautiful and happy! I went to a seafood restaurant famous for clam chowder and a waterfront view with a big group of friends for my Senior prom. I remember that the chowder was a Rhode Island style red chowder and that we had a great time. =)

      13. @Perry: Thanks!

        @Phil: Thank you as always! I need to read that chapter in Ruhlman’s book. I found the info on the pre-Keller FL on the current FL website. Love your prom stories! Sorry they were both so awful.

        @Cathy: I saw your blog post re your FL engagement dinner when I Googled the FL. Sounds like you had an incredible meal! I love your idea about taking Gabrielle to the current FL. Now I just have to find her!

        @Phoo-d: Thanks you! It was a special evening. Love your descriptions about where you went and what you ate. Sounds like fun.

      14. Sarah says:

        I went to an international school in Italy, it was a small school so everyone in the whole school went to prom every year. It was held at a villa and we were fed on site. It was a big event but very different from what I imagine American proms are like. I do remember going on a date with my boyfriend to a restaurant we thought was fancy – I think the food was ok, the strongest impression I have from that night is that we felt very grown up!

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